Nicole be Thinking...

i've joined ablog collective with my bestest buddies called "horny no more" where we talk about one of our favorite topics, sex. we talk about sex all the time . we discuss our relationships, our experiences, our exploits . everything. we're all on different levels of sexual self-awareness and prowess and we've been able to help each other through a multitude of situations, thanks to our openness. we decided we should write a book about how we see each other and what we've learned about ourselves as a result of our conversations with the hopes that other people would read it and learn something about themselves in the process. "what would we call it?" i asked. and you know nae... "HORNY NO MORE!" she offered, which was funny but then it hit me.... exactly. we decided to do a blog. hornynomore.blogspot.com. you should go visit. there's only one post so give it a few days and go check it out. =]

HELLO. fancy seeing you here! it's been a while. I've decided not to publish my old posts. instead I'm just going to notes forward like i never went awol. is that ok with you? i mean... you don't have a choice. =] anyway, here's what's on my heart right now. loving someone makes you change your entire out look. perhaps not the core of your being (... or it shouldn't), but how you apply your ideals, how you see yourself on in the scheme of things, your "bigger picture." all that changes. at least for me. reflecting on the last year of my life... maybe the last 14 months... I'm noticing some changes. i broke some of my "rules." i put myself in unpleasant situations. my expectations and goals have evolved. this is a little jarring for me. I'm a pretty self-aware gal. aside from probably looking different (i gained 10lbs, cut my hair, got a tattoo.) fourteen months ago i was a 21 year old college student. president of my Sorority. wor...